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My 5-Step Sweater Care Plan

 

Could it be that Fall is in the air? After a particularly brutal summer we’re finally experiencing some milder temperatures this week. I think we even dipped into the 50’s for a moment there! You have no idea how giddy this makes me.

In the hopes of convincing this oh-so nice weather to stick around, I decided to pull my warmest sweaters out and get them ready for autumn! I have a list of things I do to get ready for the colder months and this task has always been one of my favorites.

 

In the event that any of you might be interested in the minutiae of my sweater care, here’s My 5 Step Plan for freshening up my sweaters:

 

  • Launder – I start by hand washing all of my sweaters with my favorite special sweater shampoo. Then I rinse, roll my sweaters up in a towel to gently remove excess water and lay them out in the sun to dry on a sweater drying rack.
  • Replace Buttons - I check all my sweaters for missing buttons and replace them. If I don’t do it now I’ll end up walking around with missing buttons until spring.
  • De-pill - I prefer a sweater shaver, but you can also use a sweater stone.
  • Remove Lint –  Use a lint brush to remove any leftover pills or other unwanted sweater guests.
  • Store with Cedar – Fold (never hang your sweaters) and put away with cedar balls to keep the moths away.

 

What are your favorite Fall preparation traditions?

Happy (almost) Autumn, girls!

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A Hosiery How-To

 

Have I ever divulged how obsessed I am with hosiery? When it comes to stockings I am smitten with a capital “S.” I love them. And really, girls, how could I not when they’ve been so very good to me? They allow me to keep wearing my favorite skirts and dresses during the winter by keeping my legs warm; they give my dressy outfits that extra bit of glam; and on those days when I’m feeling particularly adventurous they add just a bit of playfulness and personality to my outfits. Selecting the right pair, choosing the right outfit to wear them with, and caring for them properly is not always easy, though, so I thought I might share a few of the things I’ve learned over the years…

  • Before buying hosiery, think about how often you are planning to wear it. If you don’t expect to wear it often, go for the cheaper brands. They may not last as long but they usually look perfectly nice. On the other hand, if you hope to get a lot of use out of it, consider investing in a slightly more expensive pair.
  • Stay away from 100% nylon stockings. Nylon has no give. If a pair of tights is completely nylon, you can very easily damage them by tugging too hard when putting it on or stretching it too much while wearing. If you find yourself going through stockings too quickly, seek out pair with a higher lycra, elastane or spandex count.
  • Another common reason that hosiery gets damaged is because the wearer has bought the wrong size. Even when hosiery is adequately stretchy, wearing tights just one size too small means the fabric is more susceptible to wear and tear as it is being stretched farther than it was meant to go. Always take a look at the size guide before buying as they do vary between brands.
  • If you have skinny legs and would like to add a little volume or accentuate your curves consider wearing tights with prints or texture. (I love these.)
  • On the other hand, if your goal is to trim the look of your legs, choose opaque tights in darker colors. (DKNY makes a fantastic pair that comes in multiple colors. The control top is an added bonus!)
  • If you want to elongate the look of your legs, select tights with vertical stripes or ribbing. (These are my personal favorite.)
  • You can also consider matching your hosiery to your shoes. This, too, will create a lengthening effect in your legs, rather than an abrupt stop where the hosiery (say, nude) meets the shoe (black). For overall lengthening and slimming, you can match your skirt or dress to the hosiery color and shoe color, as well.
  • Pair brightly colored tights with more neutral colors (for example: denim, black, brown or gray skirts and dresses). Opting for a neutral color as your main article of clothing allows you to show off your brightly-colored legs without overwhelming the whole outfit.
  • The sheerer the hose, the dressier the look. Choose semi-sheer for day, sheer for evening.
  • For thick opaques, wool and ribbed tights, chunky heeled shoes and boots look best.
  • When your skirt or dress is made of a light material choose the sheerest of hosiery. Save your heavier tights for your outfits made out of heavier material.
  • Unless you are a bride or a nurse, stay away from white. Trust me–it’s no good for you.
  • Nothing is more effective at stopping a snag from running than simple clear nail polish. Never leave the house in sheer stockings without it. It has saved me too many times to count.
  • Hand washing your hosiery is non-negotiable. Even if you toss them into one of those mesh bags and choose the “hand wash” option on your washing machine, you still run the risk of damaging them. Wash them in a sink with your hands. You can use Woolite, but I recommend Forever New. I’ve tried both and I can’t explain it but Forever New really does treat my hosiery better than Woolite does.
  • When you’re done hand washing your stockings, gently squeeze them. (Whatever you do, do not wring them.) If you can, lay them flat somewhere to dry. Otherwise drape them over a towel on a chair.
  • Store your hosiery separate from everything else. I use a simple drawstring bag. Hosiery won’t damage other hosiery but other clothes can do a number on your stockings if you’re not careful. Like any other delicate object, they need to be kept aside and treated with care.

What about you? Do you have a favorite hosiery tip or two to share with us?

Kisses!
Signed, Betty

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My Simple Formula for Wardrobe Domination

Most of us women have the three following things in common: we’re on a budget, we desire to live a life free of stress and full of simplicity, and we want to look attractive and well-dressed. Easier said than done, yes?

We’re all familiar with the common stumbling blocks: it’s hard to find quality pieces that don’t break the bank; if you have too many pieces (or too few or the wrong pieces) getting dressed in the morning can feel overwhelming (especially if you have little ones demanding your attention); and finding pieces that compliment one another (and your unique figure) can often feel like just one more chore that you have to tack on to the end of your to-do list.

But, as I’ve written about before, I think looking lovely is a worthy goal so I thought I’d share my simple formula for wardrobe domination…

  1. Study up! Know your body type. Think about the pieces you already own–which pieces do you get complimented on most often? Can you identify the cut of those pieces so that you can easily locate similar things when you go shopping? Ask your friends which colors they think you look best in. Knowledge is power, ladies. 
  2. Clean out your closet. If you haven’t worn it in a year, get rid of it. If it doesn’t fit, toss it. If someone in need would get more use out of it than you currently do, generously donate it. An uncluttered closet is essential to a peaceful morning routine. Be ruthless. 
  3. Focus on the staples. For any given season, most women should aim to have one nice dress, one skirt, one pair of slacks, one pair of jeans, at least one t-shirt (ideally two or three), one blouse, and one cardigan. You should also own one pair of sandals, one pair of flats, one pair of pumps, a good purse and a warm jacket. Ideally, all of these pieces should compliment one another. (This is a general list, of course. You may need to make little adjustments based on your lifestyle and preferences but it’s a good place to start.) Once you have these things you should be set for almost any eventuality. There’s nothing wrong with keeping a few additional pieces that are close to your heart but don’t go overboard. Simplicity is the key to conquering stress.  
  4. Identify which of the staples listed above you already own. Do they fit well and flatter you? If not, make a note to replace them. If you don’t feel confident when wearing them, it’s unlikely that you’ll make use of them. 
  5. Make a final list of the staples you still need. Assess your budget and set out to locate and obtain those pieces as soon as you can. (You can read more of my thoughts on building a wardrobe comprised of high-quality pieces on a strict budget here.) 
That’s it! Once you have a complete set of staples and a tidy closet I think you’ll find yourself with less stress and an extra spring in your step. It may take a little time and a bit of creativity but you’ll get there and I suspect you’ll be much happier for it.

Oh! One last little tip…think about buying your staples in basic colors such as black, gray, white, and cream (depending on which colors flatter you most). That way you can switch up the color of your tights, scarves, cardigans, shoes, headbands, and other accessories to suit your moods and compliment various holidays and events.

Your turn! What are your best tips for keeping your wardrobe working for you?

Take care, ladies!

Signed, Betty
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Finding Fashion That Flatters: The Petite Edition

“While clothes may not make the woman, they certainly have a strong effect on her self-confidence – which, I believe, does make the woman.”
– Mary Kay Ash

What are the defining characteristics of a Petite Body Type?

In fashion, “Petite” refers to a woman whose height is under 5’4″.

How does one dress to best flatter a Petite figure?

1. 

The most important thing to focus on is fitting your frame properly. Make it a point to shop at stores that offer Petite sizing. If you try to wear the “standard” sizes with slightly longer sleeves and hemlines you’ll end up looking more girlish than womanly.

2.

Consider cropped jackets and tops with cinched waists (both help to create a shapely look). Three-quarter length sleeves–which make your arms appear longer and leaner giving the overall impression of a more elongated body–are also a good bet.

3.

Stay away from big patterns or embellishments (such a ruffles) which run the risk of overpowering your smaller frame.

4.

Look for pants in a straight cut that fit your leg well and finish right on the top of your shoe. Be careful with boot cut or flared pants which have a tendency to make your legs look shorter than necessary depending upon your unique petite shape.

5.

Heels are a great way to make legs look longer and slimmer and give you a bit of extra height should you want it. If your feet hurt when wearing heels, try platforms or wedges which are always easier to wear than a stiletto type heel.

6.

Choose skirts that hit at or above the knee. Calf-length and ankle-length skirts can be problematic as they often make you look shorter than you are.

7.

Experiment with wide or cap sleeve tops which can help to broaden your shoulders. Tops with a v-neck tend to be especially flattering, as well.

8.

Avoid “cutting” up your frame when possible. Favor a monochromatic look from top to toe. This helps create the appearance of a long and lean silhouette.

9.

Choose garments with strong vertical prints and details such as zip front, cable patterns, ribbed knits and vertical pleats.

10.
The Wrap Dress is the Universally Flattering Dress. Buy one. Wear it. You’ll look amazing. (Others varieties of dress that tuck in at the waist often look lovely on you petite gals, too.

Take care, girls!
Signed, Betty

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Identifying Your Body Type



A few of you who’ve been following my Finding Fashion That Flatters series mentioned that you’re having a bit of trouble identifying which body type you have. Listed below are some guidelines you might find helpful. Grab your tape measures, girls!

Banana
Your waist is at least 75% of your chest and hips, which are virtually the same.

Apple
Your waist is at most 75% of your chest, and your chest is at least 110% of your hips.

Pear
Your waist is at least 75% of your chest, and your hips are at least 110% of your chest.

Hourglass
Your waist is less than 75% of your chest and hips, which are virtually the same.

Hope that helps! 

Lots of love!
Signed, Betty

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What I’ve been working on this week…

These were created for Jen of Forever, For Always, No Matter What… who is as sweet as pie.

Have a lovely weekend, friends!

Signed, Betty

(If you’d like to work with me to prepare for a special event or to freshen up your wardrobe, please see my Personal Shopping page.)

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Finding Fashion That Flatters: The "Banana" Edition

“Any garment which is cut to fit you is much more becoming, even if it is not so splendid as a garment which has been cut to fit somebody not of your stature.”
–Edna Ferber


What are the defining characteristics of a “Banana” Body Type?

“Banana” shaped women (also know as “Rectangle” shaped women) are generally lean with bust, waist and hip measurements that are very similar. You also tend to have gorgeous gams, you lucky things, you!

How does one dress to best flatter an “Banana” figure?

1.

The most common complaint I hear from straight shaped women is that feel that they look a bit boyish. Consider looking for garments that will increase the appearance of your hips and bust and are form fitting around your waist.

2.

Avoid wearing baggy tops and dresses. Aim to create curves, rather than hide them. Look for semi-fitted clothes that skim your body but do not cling to it. Anything too clingy will only accentuate the straightness of your frame.
3.
Try to find pieces that hit at your natural waist. This is the spot on your torso that is thinnest and therefore the area you want to emphasize most. Invest in cute waist-defining belts to wear over shirts, cardigans and coats.
4.
Gathers and pleats are a great way to add volume to your hips. Keep an eye out for fuller, feminine skirts such as an a-line skirt (a dress or skirt silhouette that is narrower at the top, flaring gently wider toward the bottom thereby resembling the letter “A”).
5.
Wrap dresses look gorgeous on you as they can give the illusion of a well-defined waist.
6.
Favor straight to gently flared flat-fronted pants. 
7.

“Bananas” look stunning in structured blazers and jackets that have a defined shoulder and cinched waist. Since jackets and blazers tend to be cut in a somewhat masculine way, look for pieces with princess seams (long rounded seams sewn into women’s blouses or shirts to add shaping or a tailored fit to closely follow a woman’s shape) or darts. This will give the appearance of a more curvaceous figure.


Examples?



Blouse ~ Skirt ~ Sandals ~ Headband ~ Bracelet

Take care, ladies!
Signed, Betty
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Finding Fashion That Flatters: The "Pear" Edition


“The dress must not hang on the body but follow its lines. It must accompany its wearer and when a woman smiles the dress must smile with her.”
–Madeleine Vionnet


What are the defining characteristics of an “Pear” Body Type?

Cutie pie pear-shaped gals have small upper bodies (narrow shoulders and small busts) and larger lower bodies (shapely waists, full hips and curvaceous thighs).

How does one dress to best flatter an “Pear” figure?

1.

The key to dressing in a way that flatters a pear body shape is to de-emphasize your lower body while drawing attention to your upper body to create a balanced appearance. Make sure to have fun with the top half of your outfit! 

2.

One easy way to create balance is through color. Wear light or bright colors that pop on top and darker colors on bottom.

3.

When shopping for skirts or dresses, keep your eye out for a-line pieces (a dress or skirt silhouette that is narrower at the top, flaring gently wider toward the bottom thereby resembling the letter “A”) that skim rather than cling to your lovely curves.

4.

Select pants with simple pockets or no pockets at all, choose straight-leg trousers that fall straight down from the widest part of your hip, and never, ever wear bottoms with a tapered leg!

5.

Draw attention and add volume (or the illusion of volume) to your upper body. Wrap dresses with flirty shoulder (cap or flutter sleeves, for example) are especially flattering. Necklaces that pop with color are another fun way to pull the eye up.
6.

Favor jackets with a structured shoulder and nipped-in waist. Jackets and tops that come to the hip-bone are the most flattering on your adorable body type.

7.
Think about throwing on a pair of heels occasionally. Not only will they give you a little extra height and lengthen your leg, they’ll also make your hips and bottom look smaller!



Examples?

Up next: The “Banana” Edition
Previous posts in this series: The “Hourglass” Edition and The “Apple” Edition

Take care, girls!

Signed, Betty

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What I’ve been working on this week…

These were created for the lovely Mrs. Darwin.

Have a lovely weekend, friends!
Signed, Betty

(If you’d like to work with me to prepare for a special event or to freshen up your wardrobe, please see my Personal Shopping page.)

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What I’ve been working on this week…

These were created for cute Carla in Canada.

Take care, friends!
 Signed, Betty

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